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Stress-free family meals

Some kids hate eating broccoli. For others, it's mushrooms. And worst of all, of course, are Brussels sprouts.

Level: B1 · 111 sentences

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1. Some kids hate eating broccoli. For others, it's mushrooms.
2. And worst of all, of course, are Brussels sprouts.
3. Every parent of young children knows
4. what food they will and won't eat.
5. What food did you dislike as a child, Georgie?
6. Ooh, when I was little, I
7. used to absolutely hate nuts and avocados.
8. But now, as an adult, I absolutely love both of those things.
9. I'm not surprised. They're delicious.
10. What about you, Neil? Did you dislike any foods?
11. Do you know what? I think I liked most things.
12. Family dinner time can be fun.
13. A chance to reconnect, hear about everyone's day and share a meal.
14. But when children refuse to eat the food that's been cooked,
15. the result is often conflict rather than family fun.
16. BBC Radio 4 programme The Food Chain
17. asked child nutritionist and mother of two, Charlotte Stirling-Reed,
18. whether her kids eat everything she gives them.
19. They definitely don't.
20. We go through multiple periods of up and downs
21. where their appetite is much lower
22. and then all of a sudden it comes right back.
23. It depends on the weather, what they've been doing that day.
24. It can depend on their mood.
25. At dinner time, Charlotte's children go through ups and downs,
26. a phrase meaning that a mixture of good
27. and bad things happen to them.
28. Sometimes they eat everything happily, other times they don't.
29. It depends on many things including
30. their day, the weather and their mood.
31. A person's mood is the way they're feeling at a particular time.
32. So, how can parents make dinner time something everyone enjoys?
33. In this episode, we'll be hearing
34. from three experts on young children's eating habits
35. and learning some useful new words and phrases too.
36. But first, of course, Georgie, I have a question for you.
37. Charlotte Sterling-Reed is a child nutritionist
38. and she has some tips for stress-free family meals.
39. Which of these do you think she recommends?
40. Is it a make sure your child
41. eats five pieces of fruit and veg a day,
42. b don't pressure your child to eat everything on the plate,
43. or c introduce your child to lots of new flavours quickly?
44. That's quite hard. They all seem like quite good tips.
45. I'm going to go with c introduce
46. your child to lots of new flavours quickly.
47. OK, we'll find out the answer later in the programme.
48. Dr Anne Fishel is another expert in child nutrition.
49. She co-founded the Family Dinner Project,
50. an organisation promoting children's healthy eating in the US.
51. Here Anne explains one reason why meal times can become stressful.
52. To Ruth Alexander for BBC World Service programme The Food Chain.
53. Many parents say dinner time can become a battleground.
54. So why is it that what you're
55. eating can trigger so much tension?
56. I think for small children, it's one of the few areas
57. that they have control over. I mean,
58. parents can cook what they want and serve it
59. when they want, but it's up to kids
60. to decide whether they're going to eat it.
61. And for young kids, that's a big deal.
62. They have some control.
63. Dinner time often becomes a battleground,
64. a place where argument or conflict happens.
65. Anne thinks that's because it's one
66. of the few areas where children have control.
67. For kids, controlling what they're willing to eat is a big deal,
68. something of special importance to them.
69. If experts like Charlotte and Anne struggle at meal times, imagine
70. how hard it could be if your child has a food allergy,
71. a condition where the body makes you sick after eating certain foods.
72. That was the experience of Sharon Wee.
73. A food writer from Singapore who speaks here
74. with BBC World Service programme, The Food Chain.
75. My daughter was born with allergies
76. and it was quite a struggle at first.
77. And to be honest with you,
78. we found the winning formula, which was rice and beans.
79. She grew up eating rice and beans
80. probably for the first five years of her life.
81. Sharon's daughter's allergies restricted what she could eat,
82. making cooking for the whole family a struggle.
83. Luckily, Sharon discovered the winning formula
84. something her daughter could safely eat rice and beans.
85. A winning formula is a method or strategy that produces successful results.
86. So, Georgie, how can parents help their children develop good eating habits?
87. Well, there are some things that our experts all agree upon.
88. For one, give children a choice.
89. For example by offering small healthy snacks and dips before the meal.
90. And most importantly of all, create a stress-free atmosphere
91. by not pressurising kids to finish everything on their plate.
92. Right, well that also helps with your quiz question, Neil.
93. So why not go ahead and reveal the correct answer?
94. I asked you what child food nutritionist
95. Charlotte Stirling-Reed recommends for stress-free family meals.
96. Yes, I said c introduce your child
97. to lots of new flavours quickly.
98. I'm afraid you were wrong, Georgie.
99. The answer is actually b don't
100. pressure your child to eat everything on the plate.
101. OK, let's recap the vocabulary we've learnt, starting with ups and downs
102. a phrase describing the mixture of good
103. and bad things that happen to someone.
104. Your mood is how you feel at a particular time.
105. A battleground is a place or situation where argument or conflict happens.
106. If something is a big deal,
107. it's of special importance to you.
108. A food allergy is a medical condition
109. where certain foods make your body sick.
110. And finally, a winning formula is a method
111. or strategy that produces successful results.