BBC Learnings · Section 9
Can you spot a lie
In this programme, we're talking about biscuits. Really?
Level: B2 · 118 sentences
Transcript
- In this programme, we're talking about biscuits.
- Really?
- That's not what I was told.
- Oh, hold on.
- You're lying. Yes, you're right, Sam.
- I am lying simply to demonstrate
- our topic – lying and how to detect it.
- You detected my lie very easily, Sam.
- I could tell from the smirk
- on your face that you were telling a fib.
- That's the word for a small, inoffensive lie.
- To be honest, talking about lie detecting
- will be much more interesting than biscuits.
- But first, let's start with a question for you to answer.
- A competition is held in Cumbria in the UK
- every year to find and award the title
- of the biggest liar in the world.
- But which type of people are not allowed to take part?
- a farmers, b lawyers, or c estate agents.
- What do you think, Sam?
- Well, I'd be lying if I said I knew,
- but based on personal experience, I'd say estate agents.
- They'd find it too easy.
- Ah well, that's your opinion, but I'll let you know
- if you're right at the end of the programme.
- So, lying is something I'm sure a lot
- of us do – sometimes to avoid trouble,
- sometimes to cheat people, or sometimes just to impress someone.
- Did you know I can speak seven languages, Sam?
- That's just a barefaced lie, Rob.
- But I can see how easy lying can be.
- And that's what neuroscientist Sophie Scott thinks.
- Here she is on BBC Radio 4's Seriously podcast,
- explaining how we sometimes lie just to be nice.
- Often what we mean by lying is someone
- setting out to deceive us with their words or their actions
- but actually normal conversation probably can only happen
- because we don't actually say all the time exactly
- what we really think and what we really mean.
- And that kind of cooperation is at the heart I think
- of a lot of social interactions for humans
- and I think that's one of the strong pushes to make
- conversation polite and therefore frequently not actually truthful.
- So Sophie mentions two types of lying.
- There's the one where we try to deceive someone.
- So that's trying to hide something
- by tricking someone to gain an advantage.
- That's like you getting me to pay £10
- for a cinema ticket when actually there were only £5.
- That's just dishonest.
- But there are also what we like to call white lies –
- small lies we tell to avoid obsessing someone.
- Those are lies that aren't intended to give you an advantage.
- Yes, Sophie Scott says we use them
- in normal conversation when we don't say what we really mean.
- So we want to make conversation polite
- because we want to cooperate with each other.
- She says cooperation is at the heart.
- Something that's at the heart is the most important or essential part.
- Now, telling lies is one thing,
- but how do you know if we're being lied to?
- Sometimes there are telltale signs,
- such as someone's face turning red or someone shuffling their feet.
- But if you really want to know if someone is lying,
- maybe we should listen to Richard Wiseman,
- a psychologist at the University of Hertfordshire.
- Here he is speaking on the Seriously podcast.
- Liars in general say less.
- They tend to have a longer what's called response latency,
- which is the time between the end
- of the question and the beginning of the answer.
- And there also tends to be an emotional distance in the lie.
- So the words me, my, I,
- all those things tend to drop away in lies.
- And it's much, much harder for lies to control
- what they're saying and how they're saying it.
- So focus your attention there.
- You become a better lie detector.
- Some good advice from Richard Wiseman.
- So to detect lies, we need
- to listen out for the response latency,
- a term used in psychology to describe
- the time taken between a stimulus
- or question and a response to it.
- The bigger the gap, the more chance
- there is that someone is lying.
- Is that a good summary, Sam?
- Sort of, Rob.
- Richard also suggests we focus on, or concentrate on, what and how people are saying things to.
- There's probably more to it than just that.
- Well, now you know how to detect my lies, Sam.
- Maybe honesty is the best policy, as they say.
- So I'm now going to give you an honest
- answer to the question I asked earlier.
- A competition is held in Cumbria
- in the UK every year to award the title
- of the biggest liar in the world.
- But which type of people are not allowed to take part?
- A. Farmers, B. Lawyers or C. Estate agents?
- I guessed c estate agents.
- And you are wrong, I'm afraid.
- Lawyers as well as politicians are not allowed to enter the competition.
- It's claimed they are judged to be too skilled at telling porkies.
- Porkies is an informal word for pork
- pies and that rhymes with lies.
- Fascinating stuff, Rob. And that's no lie.
- But now shall we recap some of the vocabulary we've heard today?
- Yeah, why not?
- A fib is a small, inoffensive lie.
- A white lie is also a small lie told to avoid upsetting someone.
- When you deceive someone, you try to hide something
- by tricking them to gain an advantage.
- When something is at the heart of something,
- it is the most important or essential part of it.
- And we heard about response latency,
- a term used in psychology to describe
- the time taken between a stimulus
- or question and a response to it.